Dealing with failures.

This post is mostly about my rambles, and bear with it, kay?

To succeed. Yes. That's basically everyone's need. Just don't deny, who doesn't want to be one successful guy? And the idea when they say that success destroys you, keep that in mind. In my opinion, success will lead you and encourage you better.

It's indeed true that we have to be careful on what to wish for. But in the other hand, dreaming is what defines you. Dream as much as you can, as we all live to fulfill our dreams right? I have never heard of a case when someone said, "Oh I have succeed in lots of things and it destroys me." After achieving something everyone dreamed of, doesn't it motivate you to do things better and greater than that? Well. It's the nature of us, human beings that we'll never be satisfied with what we have today. We'll forever want more, and we can't deny that. And succeeding on achieving something brings the best out of someone. It'll gain their confidence and help them to go further to the next level. To achieve another chapter of their dream.

On the darker note, failure obviously destroys someone. Theory is just a matter of theory. When people said that you can only learn to get up if you have ever fell down. In fact, not everyone has that kind of big heart to achieve failure. Not everyone is in a conducive environment, surrounded by people who'll have his/her back. When someone fails, somehow there's a little piece in them that breaks in pieces, knowing that they have failed to prove his/herself, failing to pleased people whom they loved. Somehow, you lost your confidence, and finding back what's lost is rather hard, isn't it?

Everyone brags when they succeed, but no one brags when they failed. Perhaps they're ashamed of it, or because of other particular reasons only heaven knows. But the thing is, it's not that easy to get up after you fell. It's easier to keep on walking as you have already walked before. It's easier said than done too, right? 

When poeple says that succeeding too much will make you feel overly proud of yourself, and I personally think it's our nature to feel that way. But failures could kill what's inside of you. To sulk in misery or to move on is a personal choice. But the aftermath of failure will always feel the same to people. It kills.

This is not a motivational writing, I'm currently not in the best mood I can ever be. This short essay was written for my SAT lesson test. It tears me up rewriting it, knowing that I am failing everything I'm doing. I sucks. That's the only thing I can conclude.